Yes, yes, we know, this post is way overdue.. We already married last year and the German version of the post was already up ages ago. But cut me some slack. A wedding does not organise itself. ^.-
Well, long story short, we decided last year that we actually wanted to marry while we were still in 2011 (before the groom turned 30 :D, no? *pokes Shinji*). Therefore, on the 03.12.2011 we held our civil marriage.
A nice little ceremony with only those nearest and dearest to us (from the bunch already present at this little ceremony with only the closest family and friends you can guess at the crowd we expect for the real do in September 2012 … @.@ ).
After the wedding we adjourned for food and drink to a nearby restaurant, sponsored by the parents of the groom, and after a grand total of three hours the whole thing was over and we retired to demolish the wedding cake we had completely forgotten to bring along. Well, as much as three people (our guest from Germany was staying with us) can demolish a two-tiered megacalory bomb.. Shinji had to take the rest to work and have his co-workers help dispose of the tasty fare..
We have now been married for just over four months and the Steampunk do is coming along nicely. Of course, there are still some hitches and glitches along the road (such as the supplier not realising until half a week later that the placecard holders are actually out of stock and discontinued or that the fabric intended for lining bodices and coats is too flimsy, etc.), but all together everything is working fine.
Our connubial felicity is still untarnished even to the point that we have to actively remind ourselves that we are now actually married and not “just” boyfriend and girlfriend (the times we caught ourselves referring to us as gf or bf … ). But that’s just as it ought to be.
Stay tuned for more (frequent, hopefully) updates.